Why Derrick Barnes’, “I Got You” Is the Brotherhood Book Every Black Family Needs on the Shelf

July 15, 2025

July 15, 2025

When Derrick Barnes writes, he doesn’t just create picture books—he builds affirmations in story form. And with his latest title, I Got You: A Brother’s Promise, Barnes invites families into a deeply moving celebration of Black boyhood, sibling bonds, and the everyday joy of being part of a loving, affirming family.

If you’re raising sons—or were raised with brothers—you’ll find yourself nodding, laughing, and maybe even tearing up as you flip through the pages of this powerful story.

New backtalk episode featuring derrick barnes, whose book celebrating black boy joy was banned. Podcast highlights why i got you matters now more than ever.

Inspired by Real Brotherhood

I Got You is more than a fictional tale. It’s rooted in Barnes’ real-life relationship with his big brother Anthony and the bond he shares with his four sons, affectionately dubbed “The Mighty Barnes Brothers.” The story follows young Rasheed and his older brother Anthony as they explore the highs and lows of brotherhood—from epic bike rides and muddy adventures to learning boundaries and sharing space.

Barnes says, “It’s a book about older siblings—whether they’re brothers, sisters, cousins, or chosen family. It’s a shoutout to the tour guides who walk us through life.”

And for Black families especially, this depiction of soft, protective, emotionally intelligent boyhood is revolutionary.

Fighting Back Against Book Bans

Derrick Barnes isn’t just an award-winning author—he’s also a defender of our children’s right to see themselves in literature. In a time when books about Black joy are being pulled from shelves, Barnes stood firm.

One of his best-known titles, I Am Every Good Thing, was temporarily banned in a Birmingham-area school district after just one parent’s complaint. Barnes didn’t let it slide. “I went after him,” he said during his BACKtalk interview. “I contacted every media outlet I could. I was on TV, radio, and in the papers. That book ended up back on the New York Times bestseller list—and the superintendent was fired.”

That moment was about more than a single book—it became a stand for truth, joy, and the right for Black children to be portrayed as whole, brilliant, and loved.

Cover of i got you: a brother’s promise by derrick barnes, a powerful children’s book that was banned for celebrating black boy joy and sibling love.

“I’m doing good work,” Barnes said. “Not just for our babies, but so white and non-Black children can see Black kids as the center of the universe.”

Real Lessons for Real Families

At the heart of I Got You is emotional intelligence. Rasheed must come to terms with the fact that his big brother needs space sometimes. Instead of being pushed away, Anthony reassures him: “You’re still the best little brother anybody could have. Nothing’s ever gonna change that. I got you.”

This message is crucial for young children navigating sibling dynamics and learning about love, boundaries, and independence. As Barnes shared, these moments were pulled straight from his experiences raising four sons.

“I wanted to show what it looks like when brothers celebrate each other, support each other, and grow up respecting each other’s emotions,” Barnes said. “That’s how we disrupt generational cycles.”

Black Boy Joy Deserves the Spotlight

Barnes is known for putting Black boy joy at the center of every story. With books like Crown: An Ode to the Fresh Cut and The King of Kindergarten, he rewrites the narrative around what it means to grow up Black and brilliant.

In I Got You, that tradition continues. Illustrator Shamar Knight-Justice brings the brotherly bond to life through bold, collage-style artwork that captures the warmth and wonder of Black family life. From rainy-day puddle jumps to tender moments of reassurance, this book is a mirror that reflects the kind of love every child deserves.

A Message for Parents

Barnes encourages families to build intentional home libraries and recommends three must-have categories:

  1. Fiction featuring Black characters
  2. Nonfiction about Black history and heroes
  3. Reference books about the world

He also suggests offering writing prompts to help children—especially boys—express themselves. Prompts like “If you were stranded on an island with three items…” can unlock powerful insights into a child’s thoughts and feelings.

Preorder Power: Support the Movement

I Got You: A Brother’s Promise releases July 15, 2025. Preordering is one of the most powerful ways to support Black authors and ensure these stories hit the bestseller lists where they belong. Order from Bookshop.org, Barnes & Noble, or your favorite local bookstore.



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